If you want to bring back a lost love, with the least effort, you should know that it is very important to first terminate contact with the one that you want to recover, because this will give you time to learn what you need to know and increment your value in the eyes of your ex.

The time you take without contact with your ex, should be used to learn about personality in a relationship in order to know which were your errors so you could fix them.

All errors should be identified before you could try to recover you ex, not only the ones based on your personality, but also the ones that are external to your personality.

The lastest are easy to spot, but you will learn a lot to spot personality errors.